Whatever the reasoning behind it, let's just say marriage wasn't on my vision board.That all changed when I met the man whom I now call my husband.Check out her free dating workshop for single women at July 24 marks the one year anniversary of my marriage. It's crazy to think that it's already been a year since the historic day when my husband and I, and over 800 other LGBT couples said, "I do" here in the State of New York.This is my first time being single during the holidays in a few years and it has been a gift.Here are eight surprising perks to being solo during the holidays. As the world slows down during the holidays, this is the perfect time to focus solely on yourself to reflect on 2017 and plot for the new year arriving.Jumpstart your 2018 with some quality me time to journal and plan.And if you are not totally sure what your heart wants, find out with a free report at
As the philosopher Kanye West once said, your presence is a present.
Tis the season for everybody to wonder what’s going on in your personal life.
And if you have chosen to not be in a relationship this holiday, CONGRATS.
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Jackson is ESSENCE Senior Editor, Lifestyle & Relationships and author of Boss Bride: The Powerful Woman’s Playbook for Love & Success (now available for pre-order).