My schedule was more flexible than his so it made sense that I should work around his schedule, right?
While in theory that makes sense, in reality, Craig started pulling away more and more.
A family man with two kids.(living with their mum), Kind & gentle, genuine ,loving, a bit of sense of humour, can be Witty.
I Like coffee, dinning out, beach, outdoor activities, travel the world, music, movies, cycling,..
I dated many, guys after Craig and let me tell you, whenever I’ve been overly available I went through that same cycle.
They say insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
Eventually, I stopped reaching out because it was starting to make me feel like an idiot…and he was never to be heard from again.If this is true, those men in the white coats should have been on me like white on rice. I had a very needy mindset and I derived way too much of my self-worth from how men responded to be. (To know what it does look like, check out this article: 10 Things Confident People Do Differently in Dating and Relationships.) It took a long time to realize I needed to stop prioritizing guys above myself, at least until he started treating like a priority.When you are overly accommodating to him then he doesn’t feel a real push or motivation to step up and invest in you. You know you can get to it at any time so you don’t really feel an urgency.When I eventually met up with Craig at the bar, the first thing he said after our friendly hellos and my apology for changing things around last minute was: “I like that you didn’t cancel on your friends.It shows a lot about you and made me even more excited to see you.” I was off to a great start, but that didn’t last.