Or you talk about going to a friend's wedding and he says he has plans that day, even though he hasn't even checked his calendar.Or you get invited to a friend's barbecue and he's being cagey about going.I am not a big advocate of giving up on a relationship, but when do you pack your bags and move on?Maybe the signs were there all along and you glossed over them, hoping they would change.Maybe it's because you're so deeply in it, you can't see your way out.Or you've invested so much time in the relationship; it's hard to let go.If you're becoming more pals than lovers, or if he's constantly tired, or not in the mood, it's time move on. You've become a drama king and queen Your relationship has turned into war games.The truth is, if your guy is acting like this, then he's checked out while you're still checked in. You're lobbing insults, rude remarks, or are constantly in competition.
That is, until the next time he vanishes and the not-so-fun emotional roller coaster starts all over again, until he eventually becomes Joe No-Show and you've lost him for good. Your future together isn't on his radar You're trying to plan a romantic weekend and he flakes out.Finally, after the third wedding nightmare, I realized I didn't want to be with this person anymore and moved out.So if you know deep down that it's time to move on, why aren't you leaving?Instead, it's time to dump those dingy rose-colored glasses and get yourself a fabulous new pair.Here are seven signs that it's time to end your relationship and take loving care of yourself. Your contact is becoming extinct You're becoming a dinosaur to him.